When we added the rest of that stuff up... and don't forget interest because you have borrowed this money... it was closer to $1100 a month. Now this we cannot afford. Unfortunately we are dealing with banks that don't take in to consideration all the other bills that a homeowner has to pay when they are approving loans. I guess they figure you can live with out electricity and cable TV and internet. All they care about is how much they can get you approved for because then the bank makes more money.
Isn't this the same reason that people are in such dire straits and houses are being foreclosed on? I wish that mortgage loan officers would act more like advisors and consider all the other payments you have to make when you are a homeowner. They say they are on your side but really they don't take into consideration some of payments that we make every month. The way they side step this issue is tell you it is not mandatory to borrow the full amount you are qualified for.
So now this is where we are at. We thought that we could afford a home that costs $100,000. Now we are looking at homes that are between $70,000 and $80,000. The TOTAL monthly mortgage payment for these homes is closer to $800 (what we could afford). Most of these homes are nice but need to be updated. Which means that even if we do find a home for this amount we will probably want to borrow the remainder (up to $100,000) for updating. Pretty frustrating.
Oh well, we are in no rush, maybe prices will drop again, maybe we will find a diamond in the rough.